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	<updated>2008-08-19T21:39:35Z</updated>
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		<title>Comment on How It Started</title>
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		<author>
			<name>Debbie Lee</name>
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		<updated>2008-01-03T08:22:57Z</updated>
		<published>2008-01-03T08:22:57Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[There is no list carved in stone but being sick, one of us needing to leave for work or another commitment and kids being to close around are the most common "good reasons".&nbsp; What doesn't work is just not wanting to.&nbsp; Saying I'm tired will get me out of some activities but not all, so I get to play a more passive role.&nbsp; I won't say I have a headache to get out of it because I really get one about twice a year that incapacitates me and I don't want him to think I am faking when that one hits. He doesn't like to take me during my time of the month so that ends that but he finds other things to do with me if you can imagine.<br>]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on How It Started</title>
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		<author>
			<name>Debbie Lee</name>
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		<updated>2008-01-03T08:15:36Z</updated>
		<published>2008-01-03T08:15:36Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[I was a doosey of a tomboy at 21 I have no idea how I would have taken this back then<br>]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on How It Started</title>
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			<name>Marlena</name>
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		<updated>2008-01-03T08:14:17Z</updated>
		<published>2008-01-02T21:34:15Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[I want to live this lifestyle so bad. I think that it would help me to become a better adult. I am 21 and it seems that I am more of a tomboy then a young lady and I think that having a man correct me would be most helpful. But a problem that I think that I would have is that I do not liked to be told what to do, so being in submission would be hard for me. I look up to people that live this lifestyle. Thank you]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on How It Started</title>
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		<author>
			<name>Dina Marie</name>
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		<updated>2008-01-01T18:23:14Z</updated>
		<published>2008-01-01T18:23:14Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[you said " I can't refuse sex without a really good reason".<br />What qualifies as a (really)good reason and a not (really) good reason?]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on First Weigh in</title>
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		<author>
			<name>Jessica</name>
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		<updated>2007-12-09T21:06:20Z</updated>
		<published>2007-12-09T03:20:25Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[yay that is great.  keep at it.  i lost 65 pounds in 15 months the only way it works is with self-discipline.  sure that big soft triple-chocolate cookie sounds good but don't!  that is self-sabotage.  becoming more active plays a key-factor - 20 minutes a day, 3 days a week will make a huge difference without a huge time-consuming commitment.  even if it is just a 20  minute walk around the block.  the biggest thing that helped me, though, was NOT to deprive myself.  if eating chocolate makes me feel good (emotional eating - an entirely separate obstacle) then i will eat chocolate every day!  buying the fun-size packs of M&amp;Ms was the best thing i could ever do for myself.  1 pack a day (maybe 2 on rougher days) i still get my chocolate but not in excess, as it had been before.  getting DH involved helped me, too.  i would never ask him to hit me for making a bad food decision, but i did tell him to point it out to me and he doesn't hesitate to tell me what a big mistake i am making when i pick up that box of cookies at the grocery store!!  if he gets his hands on them before i do, they go straight into the trash.  it's a teamwork effort IMO.  there will be weeks when you don't lose any weight - you plateau, it just happens, so try again for the next week.  and then there will be that 1 week a month when you gain weight lol.  but anyway, best of luck to you and i'm sure there are a lot of support group websites out there where you can get healthy tips and tricks and advice from other people who have BTDT you know?  :)]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on How It Started</title>
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		<author>
			<name>Lori</name>
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		<updated>2007-11-20T07:29:01Z</updated>
		<published>2007-11-19T20:15:36Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[My husband and I have just started this type of lifestyle and so far it is great! We were constantly fighting over what the right thing to do was, for me and our marriage. I love my husband and I know he would not do anything to hurt me however we were both constantly vieing for control. It just makes things so much easier. Thank you for posting this blog because its nice to know that there are others out there with the same issues and who live the same lifestyle.]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Disciplined!</title>
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		<author>
			<name>Ben</name>
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		<updated>2007-11-05T11:58:57Z</updated>
		<published>2007-11-05T11:58:57Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[I have been reading some of the commnets and blogs and have thought that people should not condemn anyone for this relationship. Leah and Debbie are in it with men who love and adore them and are trying to be the biblical man, husband, and father. If this isn't what you think is right, fine, but please don't condemn it. I'm not in a CDD realationship, but I don't condemn it.]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on How It Started</title>
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		<author>
			<name>nbg4ver</name>
			<uri>http://www.disciplineandlove.com</uri>
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		<updated>2007-11-03T07:49:43Z</updated>
		<published>2007-11-03T07:49:43Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[I agree I am tired of people who don't understand why I need this kind of lifestyle telling me that I am abused I am not now nor have I ever been abused.You go girl!Do what works for you.]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Disciplined!</title>
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		<id>tag:debbiesblog.christiandomesticdiscipline.com,2007-10-31:629681</id>
		<author>
			<name>L</name>
		</author>
		<updated>2007-10-31T16:28:19Z</updated>
		<published>2007-10-31T16:28:19Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[I don't think your being very honest with yourself. Your in a BDSM relationship, call it what you will. Not many SM people enjoy the pain, but they aren't about to stop their Dominants from doing it. I think that this sort of voluntary behavior among consenting adults is perfectly fine, no matter how they justify it.<br /><br />In response to the above copied post....  People can be in a Taken in Hand realtionship and NOT in a BDSM relationship, why because WE say so.  It is up to each of us to define our relationship.  If you have an opinion as to to something else thats fine but no one will define for me what my marriage is and is not.  I know exactly what we have and we couldn't be happier.   Honest with myself,  you bet!<br />L.]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Disciplined!</title>
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		<author>
			<name>Debbie Lee</name>
		</author>
		<updated>2007-10-31T15:59:52Z</updated>
		<published>2007-10-31T15:59:52Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Perhaps your serious perhaps your joking but you may be right about everything except no one spanks me except my husband.&nbsp; It is to personal for us.&nbsp; Most people seem to think I got it to hard.&nbsp; Thanks for the opposite view.&nbsp; I think it could have been harder myself but am glad our husbands haven't talked<br>]]></content>
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